M21-1 Manual / Part VII, Subpart i, Chapter 4, Section A
Establishing Parental Relationship
M21-1, Part VII, Subpart i, Chapter 4, Section A
Overview
In This Section | This section contains the following topics:
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1. Definitions and General Guidelines
Introduction | This topic contains definitions and general guidelines related to the establishment of parental relationships, including
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Change Date | February 19, 2019 |
VII.i.4.A.1.a. Definition: Parent | The term parent is defined in 38 CFR 3.59 and includes a(n):
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VII.i.4.A.1.b. Definition: Dependent Parent | The term dependent parent does not necessarily mean that the parent is not self-supporting. Rather, it means that either
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VII.i.4.A.1.c. Distinction Between Relationship and Dependency | Relationship concerns an individual’s legal status with respect to the Veteran, that is, whether the individual may be recognized as the Veteran’s parent. The issue of dependency
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VII.i.4.A.1.d. Avoiding Unnecessary Development | In all cases, a parent’s financial situation is a factor in establishing entitlement. Do not undertake development to establish the relationship between Veteran and parent if the
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VII.i.4.A.1.e. Forms Claimants Must Use to Apply for Benefits | Effective March 24, 2015, a claimant must submit the prescribed form from among those listed in M21-1, Part II, Subpart iii, 1.A, to claim entitlement to
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VII.i.4.A.1.f. Propriety of Telephone Contact With a Claimant | Regional office employees may contact a claimant by telephone to obtain clarification of information the claimant provided on a form. They may not, however, utilize telephone contact to complete a form on a claimant’s behalf. Exception: See M21-1, Part VII, Subpart i, 1.A.4.f, for an exception to the policy expressed in this block. |
2. Determining Entitlement
Introduction | This topic contains information on
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Change Date | June 7, 2018 |
VII.i.4.A.2.a. Determining When Benefits Are Payable to or for a Parent | VA may pay additional disability compensation to a Veteran for a parent(s) only if the Veteran has a combined disability rating (based on a service-connected (SC) disability or disabilities) of at least 30 percent. VA may pay survivors benefits to a Veteran’s parent only if the Veteran’s death was SC. VA may not pay additional disability pension to a Veteran for parents. |
VII.i.4.A.2.b. Considering Need as a Factor in Determining Entitlement | Always consider need when determining whether benefits are payable to or for a parent. |
VII.i.4.A.2.c. Death Benefits for a Dependent Parent | The parents of a deceased Veteran whose death was SC are eligible for death compensation or DIC. Note: Death compensation is an older VA benefit that is payable if the Veteran died before January 1, 1957. Reference: For more information on death benefits, see
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VII.i.4.A.2.d. Determining Entitlement to DIC | A parent’s net worth is not a factor in determining entitlement to DIC. The rate of DIC payable is based on the parent’s countable income. If the parent’s countable income exceeds the applicable income limit, DIC is not payable even if the Veteran’s death was SC. Reference: For more information on DIC income computations, see
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VII.i.4.A.2.e. Determining Entitlement to Death Compensation and Additional Disability Compensation | Death compensation and additional disability compensation are payable to or for a parent only if the parent is dependent. Always establish need when determining entitlement to these benefits. Reference: For information on the issue of a parent’s dependency, see |
3. Effect of Court Judgments
Introduction | This topic contains information on the effect of court judgments, including
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Change Date | June 7, 2018 |
VII.i.4.A.3.a. Establishment of a Parental Relationship by a Court | In a suit in which the United States is a party, parental relationships may be established by a judgment of a Federal court. Follow the court’s findings and conclusions for the purpose of determining entitlement to VA benefits, even though the court’s determination may relate to other benefits. |
VII.i.4.A.3.b. Determining When an Administrative Decision Is Required | The preparation of an administrative decision is required if
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4. Establishing an Individual as a Veteran’s Biological Parent
Introduction | This topic contains information on establishing an individual as a Veteran’s biological parent, including
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Change Date | June 7, 2018 |
VII.i.4.A.4.a. Requirement for Documentary Evidence | Documentary evidence is required to establish an individual as a Veteran’s biological parent. In most instances, this consists of a copy of the Veteran’s birth certificate. If a birth certificate is unavailable and the claimant has adequately explained the reason for its unavailability, claims processors may rely on secondary evidence to establish the parental relationship. Important: M21-1, Part VII, Subpart i, 4.A.4.c, describes additional evidence a claimant must submit to establish as a Veteran’s biological father an individual who was not married to the Veteran’s biological mother at the time of the Veteran’s birth. References: For more information on
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VII.i.4.A.4.b. Primary Evidence of a Parental Relationship | Primary evidence to establish the relationship between a Veteran and a biological parent is a copy or abstract of the public record of birth showing the name of the parent. Use the table below to determine whether a birth certificate is acceptable as primary evidence.
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VII.i.4.A.4.c. Establishing as a Veteran’s Biological Father an Individual Who Was Not Married to the Veteran’s Biological Mother at the Time of the Veteran’s Birth | Additional evidence (beyond that discussed in M21-1, Part VII, Subpart i, 4.A.4.a) is required to establish as a Veteran’s biological father an individual who was not married to the Veteran’s biological mother at the time of the Veteran’s birth. That evidence consists of certified statements of two disinterested persons indicating the individual assumed the legal and moral obligations of a parent by living with the Veteran or providing financial support for the Veteran at substantially all times from the date of the Veteran’s birth until the date the Veteran
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5. Establishing a Parental Relationship Through Adoption
Introduction | This topic contains information on establishing a parental relationship through adoption, including
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Change Date | June 7, 2018 |
VII.i.4.A.5.a. Status of a Parent of an Adopted Veteran | A person who adopts a Veteran has the same status as the Veteran’s biological parent. |
VII.i.4.A.5.b. Establishing an Adoptive Parent’s Relationship to a Veteran | To establish that an individual is the adoptive parent of a Veteran, request a copy of the final decree of adoption. There is no requirement to obtain this document if it is impounded, such that it
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VII.i.4.A.5.c. Considering Impounded Adoption Records | If the final adoption decree referenced in M21-1, Part VII, Subpart i, 4.A.5.b, may not routinely be released, claims processors may rely on the following alternative evidence to establish the parental relationship:
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VII.i.4.A.5.d. Requirements in Foreign Adoption Cases | If an individual living outside the U.S. adopted a Veteran, VA will recognize the individual as the Veteran’s adoptive parent only if the following requirements are met in addition to the other requirements set forth in this topic:
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6. Establishing a Foster Parent as a Veteran’s Parent for VA Purposes
Introduction | This topic contains information on establishing a foster parent as a Veteran’s parent for VA purposes, including
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Change Date | July 25, 2024 |
VII.i.4.A.6.a. Definition: Foster Parent | A foster parent is a person who stands in place of a Veteran’s parent for a continuous period of at least one year.
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VII.i.4.A.6.b. Definition: In Loco Parentis | The term in loco parentis simply means “in place of a parent” and it refers to the foster parent relationship for VA purposes. |
VII.i.4.A.6.c. Definition: Relinquishment of Parental Control | The term relinquishment of parental control means
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VII.i.4.A.6.d. Issues That Arise When an Alleged Foster Parent Is the Same Sex As a Biological or Adoptive Parent | If a biological or adoptive parent of the same sex as the alleged foster parent was living at the time a foster parent relationship is alleged to have arisen, relinquishment of parental control by the biological or adoptive parent must be proven before the foster parent relationship may be established. If a biological or adoptive parent of the same sex as the alleged foster parent is living at the time an alleged foster parent files a claim for survivors benefits, treat the claim as a contested claim even if the biological or adoptive parent has not filed a claim. References: For more information on
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VII.i.4.A.6.e. Example: Relinquishment of Control by a Biological Parent | Situation:
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VII.i.4.A.6.f. Establishing a Brother or Sister as a Foster Parent | VA may establish a Veteran’s brother or sister as the Veteran’s foster parent if the evidence shows
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VII.i.4.A.6.g. Processing a Claim for Survivors Benefits From an Alleged Foster Parent | Follow the steps in the table below to process a claim for survivors benefits from an individual who claims to be the foster parent of a deceased Veteran.
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VII.i.4.A.6.h. Processing a Claim for Additional Disability Compensation for an Alleged Foster Parent | Follow the steps in the table below to process a Veteran’s claim for additional disability compensation for an individual the Veteran claims is a foster parent.
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7. VA’s Policy of Recognizing Only One Father and One Mother of a Veteran
Introduction | This topic contains information regarding VA’s policy of recognizing only one father and one mother of a Veteran, including
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Change Date | June 7, 2018 |
VII.i.4.A.7.a. Handling Cases in Which Two Persons of Same Sex Claim to be the Veteran’s Parent | A situation might arise where two persons of the same sex claim to have been the parent of a Veteran and meet the basic definition of a parent. In this instance, the qualifying person who last bore the relationship of parent to the Veteran, before the Veteran entered active duty, is recognized as the Veteran’s parent for VA purposes. Note: Only one father and one mother may be recognized for VA purposes. |
VII.i.4.A.7.b. Example: Two Persons of the Same Sex Claim to Be the Veteran’s Parent | Situation:
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VII.i.4.A.7.c. Considering the Legal Termination of a Biological Parent’s Parental Rights | A biological parent whose parental rights have been terminated by a court may still be recognized as a parent for VA purposes if the person was the last one to bear the relationship of parent to the Veteran before the Veteran entered active duty. |
VII.i.4.A.7.d. Example: Legal Termination of a Biological Parent’s Parental Rights | Situation: A court terminates the Veteran’s biological mother’s parental rights when the Veteran is eight years old. The Veteran is then adopted. The adoptive parents die and the biological mother assumes responsibility as the Veteran’s parent before the Veteran entered active duty at age 18. Result: The biological mother qualifies as the Veteran’s parent for VA purposes. Note: In this situation the biological parent’s parental rights were legally terminated, but the parent still qualifies as the Veteran’s parent for VA purposes. |
8. Abandonment of a Veteran by a Parent
Introduction | This topic contains information on the abandonment of a Veteran by a parent, including
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Change Date | July 25, 2024 |
VII.i.4.A.8.a. How Abandonment Affects Entitlement to Benefits | A biological or adoptive parent who refused to assume the legal and moral obligations of a parent is not entitled to VA benefits. Notes:
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VII.i.4.A.8.b. How to Differentiate Between Relinquishment of Control and Abandonment | For VA purposes
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VII.i.4.A.8.c. Example: Relinquishment of Control vs. Abandonment | Situation: The Veteran’s mother leaves the Veteran’s biological father and lives with another man, John. They do not marry. John supports the Veteran and bears the relationship of father to the Veteran. The mother never asks the biological father to support the Veteran and he never offers to do so. Result: In this case, the biological father may have relinquished control of the Veteran, but there is nothing to suggest he abandoned the Veteran. The table below describes the results of possible scenarios in a case such as this.
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VII.i.4.A.8.d. Foster Parent and the Relinquishment of Parental Control | If another person of the same sex claims to have been the Veteran’s foster parent, the issue of whether the biological or adoptive parent abandoned the Veteran need not be considered. Under these circumstances, the issue is merely whether or not the biological or adoptive parent relinquished parental control. |
VII.i.4.A.8.e. Foster Parent and Abandonment | The authorization activity must resolve the issue of abandonment if no person of the same sex has claimed a foster parent relationship to the Veteran, but
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VII.i.4.A.8.f. Parents DIC Claims and Alleged Abandonment | If a person entitled to DIC as the parent of a deceased Veteran alleges abandonment by the other parent, the authorization activity must resolve the issue regardless of whether or not the other parent has filed a claim for Parents DIC. Note: Contested claims procedures apply because VA must pay a lower rate of Parents DIC to the claimant if one of two parents (instead of a sole surviving parent). References: For more information on
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VII.i.4.A.8.g. Developing a Case Involving Abandonment by a Parent | Fully develop the facts surrounding an allegation that a Veteran’s parent abandoned the Veteran, to include
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VII.i.4.A.8.h. Administrative Decisions Regarding Abandonment by a Parent | After determining benefits are not payable to a biological or adoptive parent because of abandonment, prepare a two-signature administrative decision, using the format in M21-1, Part X, Subpart v, 1.C.2. The issue is abandonment by a parent. |
Source: VA M21-1 Adjudication Procedures Manual, M21-1, Part VII, Subpart i, Chapter 4, Section A (U.S. government work, reproduced for reference). Browse all sections →